I tell lies to you. It is as simple as wearing makeup but that is being nice. The more direct and cruel way, besides wearing makeup and already lying to your face on my appearance would be is to speak it through my teeth.
No one is exempt from this; not you nor me.
“Makeup”, “cover up”, “put on my face”. Indeed, you are putting on a face, one mask of many lies. Majority of females do this every day. It is not needed by more than half of them. This guise they plaster on their faces is claimed to “enhance” their natural beauty.
One might as well be dressing a doll. Slapping on all of that makeup makes the female look like a doll — a perfect little thing to anyone who sees it, something men would like their women to be and what little girls want to grow into.
It is false; false advertising and false reasoning. They say that this-and-that accentuates or brings out this-or-that. Perhaps it does, but do you honestly need it? Does a female need to place on so much makeup to look younger or more appealing to any potential mate? Does she need to place this on to even be looked at by anyone?
In today’s society women must look young and beautiful. It is highly regarded and if they are not beautiful, which equates to looking young — looking in their late twenties when they are actually in their late forties — they are looked at in an ill light.
“Beauty” is strongly and heavily placed on teenage girls and women. This “Beauty” is defined, majority of the time, by Society and the Media — who would have thought?! They place out there in movies, television shows, magazines, etc. on what is “beautiful” and what is not. All Their models have makeup on, even if it is the slightest, and is perhaps enhanced by technology.
Do you look the same when you wake up and when you are out socializing at school and with your friends? I do not think most of you can say yes. Even a bit of eye liner or mascara applied qualifies.
No one needs makeup products to be noticed. There are several things about a person that many would naturally be tuned to and wish to speak to and socialize with them. Nothing more is needed than one’s personality and mind.
What else could be lies?
Even if one did wear makeup it would not be like she meant it intentionally. “My cheeks aren’t this rosy but I’ll make him think so, so he’ll like me more even though he doesn’t care about the color of my cheeks” is not what goes through most girls minds when they apply. It has become natural to them. Why? It was placed on them by Society and the Media daily since they were young so it becomes instinct.
Some simply cannot see this while others can.
Many people would say that makeup is not a lie, it is simply making prettier what is already there and that what to be cautious about are other peoples lies that spurt from their mouths. No one can be trusted. If that is the case then why is so much of the blame and pointed fingers directed at males? That is simple: it is easiest and also true. Men do lie for various reasons and women lie for various reasons. The intent behind the lies should not be subjected to a gender-specific thing; it can go either way in most cases.
Anyone can be untrustworthy; treachery lies in mortal’s hearts and many are sadly blind to it, not able to see when it will come or by whom. Since many people are not in-tune to knowing what people’s intents are by words, gestures and meanings, they are typically unable to predict potential behavior and “problems” occur which leads, eventually, to all the issues happening today.
Ever since Homo sapiens have come onto this planet, there have been several set “unspoken” rules that happen on instinct. One of these, one could say for example, is males liking to be the provider. Well, there is something to be said of women.
Males gave off displays of their strength and power to let females know that they were worthy to protect them and have strong offspring; true for all animals, including us. Females would seek out the strong male to their potential children, usually the male with the best power. This still holds true today, but it has evolved over those eleven thousand years since our species has come along.
Now, humans have become more complex and are not as simple in their thinking and ways as they used to be some eleven thousand years ago. Females today seek males with high well-paying jobs so that they can be spoiled or spoil themselves with their husbands money while not working themselves. Many women in this Society do this.
Many do not see that females can just as easily manipulate males and it is not just the other way around. Besides marrying them for their wealth, perhaps even killing them to gain more wealth, females can use sex or sexual attraction as a way to lock whatever unsuspecting male she decides to devour to gain whatever ends she needs to meet.
Females may be victims to male’s physical, emotional, spiritual and sexual abuse very often, but that holds true for males as well, although it seems less. A woman can just as easily hurt a man, even though he may not show it or report it to the authorities. Why? Well it shows weakness which is unacceptable in the world of males and it would be shameful to admit a woman was doing this-and-that when he could have easily dealt with it himself. Something this Society teaches males is to hold everything inside and express in anger and violence. It is what they do.
Women can just as easily manipulate a male to whatever desire she pleases by any means she can acquire — intellectually, emotionally, spiritually, sexually, etc.
Men can easily manipulate a woman by emotions, intelligence, sex, etc.
If this is the case, men and women are quite equal, right?
Human manipulation is a part of our lives, even among our friends. Sure, we hang out with each other and socialize because there is something of interest in the other person that attracts us to them, thus why they become our friends or significant others, but underlying that is something that you can gain from the relationship whether it is of a physical — an object for instance — or intangible — intellectual stimulation — plain field.
Even though I may be using you to seek some unconscious want, I am still glad I have chosen you as friends.
Women and men have their places in Society but that can, and will forever be continuing to, change for the better.
As for beauty, natural is a path all should take for it truly is what is inside one that makes them shine with beauty.
